Wednesday, July 7, 2010

How Far Deep Can I Go Before Breaking The Hymen

Saturday 3 July - Conflict and coping strategies

The Defensoría , at which I take some time, has held that a month ago her moving opening ceremony. It is probably not accidental, as already noted some participants that broke out after a major conflict. The exercise of authority is not only a problem between men and women. The group will probably take the fact that violence also occurs among women, "said Cristina, another Coordinadora, in African supervisor function. Specifically, it happened in the Defensoría that two closely women friends who have studied only one in the group and also better professionally, are strongly urged to take a stance on giving to others. One of them did this so massive that they are positioned in an authoritarian leadership and next to no one allowed. I do not want to write more accurate to me it would be unfair to the members before the group.
They are all strong personalities. They will present their Defensoría build on, even if some who take steps might be strong, be another way. The conflict was hard. He was accompanied by María with some wonderful group dynamic activities but also the subject of discussion in various forms of violent communication groups. Finally, the protection of the group stood in the foreground, so that they will not be eroded by the conflict.

I realized that the MEDH in defensorías integrate Assistenzialismus can not and will not. The defensorías are there to help others to accompany them, too, but first they are there for the group itself. Although this is not a therapeutic support groups. But it is about the individual members to their transformation emanating from them as protagonists themselves needs. The MEDH want to force anything, the times that someone needs to change something to be respected and even if someone makes setbacks, it means no conviction. But exactly why should not stand on the MEDH assistenzialistische way about the women or allow this attitude in the group itself grows. It would undermine the process of transformation into protagonists.
If there is a problem or conflict, then it has the whole group. The solution can not be to distribute the blame. What kind of feeling I am feeling in an act, how can I put it and how we manage to take this seriously and so something new construct, are the questions that were asked. Violence may not happen even in the space of Defensoría , otherwise it loses its characteristic as a gun room, which does not adapt itself to the usual forms of violence. It exercises the MEDH my opinion, what an incredibly profound pastoral task: For us it is different and we try to create the face of adversity and contradictions in this system is something new.

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